Obituary – Tom Holmes

It was with deep sadness and shock that we heard about the sudden death of Tom Holmes on 12th June 2020. 

Tom (48) will be fondly remembered by all for his jovial nature, his passion for the game of golf and of course his inimitable sharp, dry humour.

It was in 2008, after meeting Mike Smith at the Doha Golf Club, Qatar and with Mike enthusing to Tom about how nice Malaysia was, Tom, who was now at the end of his contract, jumped on a plane with one suitcase and his golf clubs and arrived in Malaysia. Here he fell right into the KL lifestyle and joined a number of golfing societies living the life of leisure before getting a job. Tom subsequently became an “offshore tiger” having gained employment here in Malaysia specialising in offshore installations, flare maintenance and operations, which included flare tip and igniter panels replacement, given his electrical background.

In the time that Tom was in Malaysia he was active in all the KL golf societies such as Loose Cannons, KLOGS and FRID’ Eggs but Tom was of course predominantly active in the running of the WIGS group which played every Sunday at Bukit Unggul.

Tom was involved with the WIGS golf group for many years and with his organisational skills and meticulous attention to detail with the WIGS unique scoring and handicapping system along with the “Animal Fines” and other associated infringements Tom ultimately headed up the WIGS group. Tom organised and attended every twice-yearly golf away trips in his capacity as CW for the WIGS society and they were all an outstanding success.

Tom was also a regular attender of KLOGS monthly games and twice-yearly “aways” for over 10 years when not working offshore. His last victory was at Tropicana in April of 2017, and on this day as well as easily winning the game he was also awarded the “other award” for blobbing the last hole when considered well in front – handicap preservation being the cry with the forthcoming May away on the horizon. Tom was regularly awarded this accolade, most recently on the Chiang Mai November Away, where as well as winning the daily misdemeanour award he also took this for the tour -something to do with the wearing of an orange bathing cap in the shower. Tom’s greatest qualities were to give everyone the benefit of his cutting wit, but also not getting bothered when it rebounded and taking his punishment in fine style. He was also quick to assist and standing in as scribe at short notice, and acting as the tour’s fines master with relish. With his wide knowledge of golf in the region, he was a very helpful source on the latest course information when planning the next away adventure. In addition to all the above an accomplished golfer who always showed great sportsmanship and a loyal friend to all those that had the privilege to meet him.

Tom was also a member of the FRID’ Eggs group who met every Friday and, work or travel permitting, Tom would join the group. Tom’s last game with FRID’ Eggs was on 14th February 2020 at Danau Golf Club where he won on the day – a very fitting result for a great golfer and a great human being.

Tom was a very well-loved and respected friend to everybody in our community here in Malaysia. The outpouring messages of affection and tributes received upon the shock and disbelief at Tom’s sudden and totally unexpected demise bears testimony to this. Tom became more than just a golf buddy to some, he also became a part of the family. 

Tom will be sadly missed by all his golfing friends and all his other friends and working colleagues here in Malaysia and overseas but of course our thoughts and deepest condolences go out at this time to his family back in UK. 

R.I.P. Tom Holmes

15 thoughts on “Obituary – Tom Holmes

    1. Bernhard Schobert's avatar Bernhard Schobert

      Hey Tom,
      Will miss the fights with you on the golfcourse dearly and the time at the KLOGS AWAY games.
      R.I.P. Tom
      Cheers
      Berni

  1. Peter 'Jacko' Jackson's avatar Peter 'Jacko' Jackson

    Having been a regular WIGGER for over 20 years until I finally left KL in August 2018 I had the honour and privilege of knowing Tom since he first arrived in Malaysia. A super guy in every respect and a true friend.

    Our last encounters were when he stayed at my place last January when on his annual pilgrimage to see his family, and then in February on the Cambodian Tour and afterwards when I stayed in his pad for a couple of nights before returning to the Frozen North as Tom would like to cal it.

    How was I ever to know I would never see him again when he waved me off to KLIA in my Grab taxi.?

    I am shocked and devastated, Words fail me. It’s just so unfair. Tom will be a huge loss to us all – a void that will never, ever be filled.

    RIP, TOM

  2. Colm Martin O'Donovan's avatar Colm Martin O'Donovan

    Vale Tom Holmes

    A great friend to all, always cheerful, intelligent and a good golfer !
    R.I.P. Tom, you will be sadly missed by everyone

  3. A Chez's avatar A Chez

    I only played with Tom a few times, but we laughed about when I called him out about being the youngest at the Loose Cannons…since I thought I normally was!…Lovely guy, a nice person…a real shock to see him go at such an early age

  4. Karl Muir's avatar Karl Muir

    Karl Muir

    Wow I find this so hard to believe that someone so young as Tom should be gone when you think so many of us “old farts” in the likes of KLOGS are still here. What a great guy and so much fun to be around.

    They say life isn’t fair at times and I guess this just goes to prove it, a true gentlemen with quick wit and always ready to help at a moment notice.

    RIP Tom Holmes and may you have many holes in one in the sky!!

  5. Raymond Keys's avatar Raymond Keys

    So saddened and shocked to learn of Tom’s sudden and untimely demise. Although I have not seen him over the last 6 or 7 years, we did communicate via email. A true professional, and honest guy. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him.
    RIP Tom.
    Gone far too soon.

  6. Ted Parslow's avatar Ted Parslow

    What a shock to hear of Tom’s untimely passing. I was looking forward to many more enjoyable games of golf in company with him. Condolences to his family and close friends.

  7. Iain Wise's avatar Iain Wise

    You will be sadly missed by all who were privileged to know you. Sadly called home halfway through the round. Condolences to your family. RIP Tom

  8. david r hewitt's avatar david r hewitt

    RIP Tom.

    I recall so many happy and amusing KLOGS tours at which you were the life and soul
    of the party.

    David Hewitt.

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